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𝐹𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑦 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒

The reason why I fell for you was not because of all the time we spent together

but because I saw the beauty in you that others still neglect to notice.

I fell for you

because you consistently put the happiness and needs of others before your own

often hardly leaving time for self care.

That is why you find both peace and desolation in being alone

it is when you finally have time to take care of yourself,

only to once more realize why you limit the time spent in your thoughts in the first place

to run away from the agony that haunts you

in hopes that aiding others will serve as more than just another temporary distraction.

I only know this because I too engage in that self-depriving behavior,

and I am all too familiar with the slow soul-crushing toll it inevitably takes.

You may not care much for me out of the unsettling fear that unfamiliar intimacy has brought upon you,

but please do me a favor,

and please take care of yourself.

For superman had weaknesses far greater than kryptonite.

Source: sea-shels
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How to Study Like a Harvard Student

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Taken from Sophia Chua-Rubenfeld, daughter of the Tiger Mother

Preliminary Steps

1. Choose classes that interest you. That way studying doesn’t feel like slave labor. If you don’t want to learn, then I can’t help you.
2. Make some friends. See steps 12, 13, 23, 24.

General Principles

3. Study less, but study better.
4. Avoid Autopilot Brain at all costs.
5. Vague is bad. Vague is a waste of your time.
6. Write it down.
7. Suck it up, buckle down, get it done.

Plan of Attack Phase I: Class

8. Show up. Everything will make a lot more sense that way, and you will save yourself a lot of time in the long run.
9. Take notes by hand. I don’t know the science behind it, but doing anything by hand is a way of carving it into your memory. Also, if you get bored you will doodle, which is still a thousand times better than ending up on stumbleupon or something.

Phase II: Study Time

10. Get out of the library. The sheer fact of being in a library doesn’t fill you with knowledge. Eight hours of Facebooking in the library is still eight hours of Facebooking. Also, people who bring food and blankets to the library and just stay there during finals week start to smell weird. Go home and bathe. You can quiz yourself while you wash your hair.
11. Do a little every day, but don’t let it be your whole day. “This afternoon, I will read a chapter of something and do half a problem set. Then, I will watch an episode of South Park and go to the gym” ALWAYS BEATS “Starting right now, I am going to read as much as I possibly can…oh wow, now it’s midnight, I’m on page five, and my room reeks of ramen and dysfunction.”
12. Give yourself incentive. There’s nothing worse than a gaping abyss of study time. If you know you’re going out in six hours, you’re more likely to get something done.
13. Allow friends to confiscate your phone when they catch you playing Angry Birds. Oh and if you think you need a break, you probably don’t.

Phase III: Assignments

14. Stop highlighting. Underlining is supposed to keep you focused, but it’s actually a one-way ticket to Autopilot Brain. You zone out, look down, and suddenly you have five pages of neon green that you don’t remember reading. Write notes in the margins instead.
15. Do all your own work. You get nothing out of copying a problem set. It’s also shady.
16. Read as much as you can. No way around it. Stop trying to cheat with Sparknotes.
17. Be a smart reader, not a robot (lol). Ask yourself: What is the author trying to prove? What is the logical progression of the argument? You can usually answer these questions by reading the introduction and conclusion of every chapter. Then, pick any two examples/anecdotes and commit them to memory (write them down). They will help you reconstruct the author’s argument later on.
18. Don’t read everything, but understand everything that you read. Better to have a deep understanding of a limited amount of material, than to have a vague understanding of an entire course. Once again: Vague is bad. Vague is a waste of your time.
19. Bullet points. For essays, summarizing, everything.

Phase IV: Reading Period (Review Week)

20. Once again: do not move into the library. Eat, sleep, and bathe.
21. If you don’t understand it, it will definitely be on the exam. Solution: textbooks; the internet.
22. Do all the practice problems. This one is totally tiger mom.
23. People are often contemptuous of rote learning. Newsflash: even at great intellectual bastions like Harvard, you will be required to memorize formulas, names and dates. To memorize effectively: stop reading your list over and over again. It doesn’t work. Say it out loud, write it down. Remember how you made friends? Have them quiz you, then return the favor.
24. Again with the friends: ask them to listen while you explain a difficult concept to them. This forces you to articulate your understanding. Remember, vague is bad.
25. Go for the big picture. Try to figure out where a specific concept fits into the course as a whole. This will help you tap into Big Themes – every class has Big Themes – which will streamline what you need to know. You can learn a million facts, but until you understand how they fit together, you’re missing the point.

Phase V: Exam Day
26. Crush exam. Get A.

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My favorite study motivation post

Source: yhbgk-blog
loviely
The last time I ever admitted that I was scared of anyone was when I was 16
the time that I was raped on that cold summer night
under the lights of the staten island bridge
That night was supposed to be beautiful
and so were you
There’s a pit in my stomach as I hear you walk up the steps
Will tonight be good or will it be bad like most nights
Will I be sober and content sleeping next to my favorite warm body
Or will I be wasted on two bottles of wine with the red stain on my lips shivering because you left the fan on before you walked out
When will everyone stop fucking yelling at me?
Can’t I get some peace and fucking mind in this place?
I feel like I’m suffocating while walking on egg shells
Trying not to believe anything anyone is saying to me
“You’re good enough, you’re good enough”
No you’re not don’t be silly
Why aren’t the dishes done?
Did you walk the dog?
I thought you were going to do the laundry today?
They won’t leave me alone and I can’t get out of this place
I called my mom but she could only talk about her self
and my dad won’t take care of me anymore
You were my only purpose
You made me feel like I was supposed to be here
But what do you do when you love everyone else so much more then they love you?
I tried to tell you how I felt but when I looked to see if you were listening you were sound asleep (via irenix)
Source: irenix